How To Find Your Style
What Does “Finding Your Style” Actually Mean?
Your personal style is the way you naturally put outfits together that feel the most like you. It's less about wearing what you think you should wear and more about knowing what you'll actually reach for again and again.
If getting dressed feels harder than it should, even with a wardrobe full of clothes, it's probably time to hone in on your personal style. Trust us, we've all been there! If you're wondering how to find your style, the answer starts with paying attention to what you genuinely love wearing.
You don't have to have it all figured out. Personal style changes as you do. The more outfits you try, trends you experiment with and pieces you wear on repeat, the easier it becomes to build a wardrobe that feels like you.
How Do I Know What My Style Is? (Start Here)
The easiest way to find your style is to identify what's working, save inspo that catches your eye and put your own spin on it.
Start with these three simple steps:
- Audit your wardrobe to spot patterns.
- Create mood boards that reflect your style goals.
- Choose three words that define your dream wardrobe.
Do A Wardrobe Audit
Before you buy anything new, take a look at what you already own. Pull out the 10 pieces you wear on repeat and ask yourself why you keep reaching for them.
Do you gravitate towards neutrals or pops of color? Are you always reaching for oversized silhouettes, fitted basics or feminine details? Looking for these patterns will help you understand what actually fits your style.
Build a Mood Board the Right Way
Pinterest and TikTok are your best friends here. Instead of saving individual pieces, save complete outfits that you could actually see yourself wearing.
Create separate boards for different occasions like everyday outfits, going out, vacay looks and winter styling. Before long, you'll start noticing recurring colors, silhouettes and styling details. If you saved it, chances are you liked it for a reason!
Try the 3-Word Style Method
One of the easiest ways to make getting dressed (and shopping) easier is to choose three words that describe your ideal style.
Maybe you're sporty, minimal and relaxed. Or romantic, playful and feminine. Whatever your three words are, use them as a filter before adding pieces to your wardrobe. If a piece doesn't fit at least one of those words, it's probably not something you'll wear on repeat.
The Biggest Aesthetics Right Now (2026 Guide)
Still wondering how to find your style aesthetic? Start with the looks you naturally gravitate towards. You don't have to fit neatly into just one category either. Mix, match and take inspo from different aesthetics until you find what feels most like you.
Not sure where to start? Think of this as your own aesthetic quiz. Read through the categories below and think about which one sounds most like your dream wardrobe.
Maximalism
Maximalism means not being afraid to do the most. It’s about bold colors, statement prints, unexpected layering and outfits that stand out. If your saved folder is full of eye-catching looks, this trend might have your name on it.
Signature pieces: Statement prints, colorful separates, chunky accessories.
Y2K
The early 2000s are still having a major moment. Think low rise denim, slogan baby tees, wraparound sunglasses and kitten heels. It's playful, nostalgic and doesn't take itself too seriously.
Signature pieces: Graphic baby tee, low rise jeans, studded bag.
Off Duty
The cool girl uniform. This aesthetic is relaxed, effortless and just the right amount of oversized. Layered tanks, baggy shorts and oversized hoodies do all the heavy lifting.
Signature pieces: Layered tank, oversized tee, track shorts.
Elevated Basics
If your dream wardrobe is built around timeless pieces you'll wear on repeat, this one's for you. Clean silhouettes, draped fabrics, cinched details and versatile neutrals make getting dressed feel easy.
Signature pieces: Three-quarter sleeve tops, jersey midi skirts, tailored pants.
Gorpcore / Utilitarian
Originally inspired by outdoor gear, gorpcore blends function with fashion. Expect technical layers, parachute pants, funnel neck jackets and sporty accessories that look just as good in the city as they do on the trail.
Signature pieces: Parachute pants, funnel neck jacket, wraparound sunglasses.
Soft romantic or whimsical (lace vibes)
Feminine details are having a huge moment. Lace, corsetry, delicate silhouettes and satin textures create a look that's playful yet super wearable.
Signature pieces: Lace tops, midi skirts, corset-inspired silhouettes.
How to Build a Wardrobe Around Your Style
Once you've got an idea about your personal style, it's time to build a wardrobe that works for you. Start with versatile staples you'll wear on repeat, then layer in pieces that reflect your aesthetic. Think 80% everyday essentials and 20% statement pieces.
If you're starting from scratch, these five wardrobe essentials are the perfect place to start!
- A Go-To Pair of Bottoms
Every wardrobe needs that one pair of jeans or pants you can throw on with anything. Whether you gravitate towards classic denim or relaxed tailoring, this is the piece you'll reach for week after week.
Try: Ramos Low Rise Wide Leg Denim Jeans or Two Lovers Low Rise Baggy Pants.
- A Neutral Top
A great basic is the foundation of countless outfits. Think a fitted top or classic tee that pairs effortlessly with your favorite bottoms and layers.
Try: Kasper Cinched Longline Tank Top or Nakota V Neck Cinched Tee.
- A Statement Piece
This is where your personality comes through. Maybe it's a lace top, bold print or pop of color. Your statement pieces should feel exciting while still fitting naturally into the rest of your wardrobe.
Choose pieces you'll genuinely be excited to wear!
- A Layering Piece
The easiest way to get more wear out of your wardrobe is by layering. A jacket, knit or zip-up instantly changes the look and gives you more outfit combinations.
- A Versatile Dress
Whether it's brunch, date night or a last-minute dinner plan, having one dress you know you feel great in makes getting ready so much easier. Pick a silhouette that suits your style and you'll find yourself reaching for it all year round.
Before adding anything new, take inventory of what you already own. You might already have a few of these wardrobe staples waiting in your closet. From there, fill the gaps with pieces you'll wear often, then mix in trending styles that match your aesthetic.
If you're looking for more inspo, check out our guide on How to Build a Capsule Wardrobe.
Styling Tips
If you know what you don't like but still aren't sure what you do like, don't stress. That's completely normal, and finding your style takes time! Here are our Global Style Director's hot tips for finding your personal style.
Dress For Your Actual Life
“Build a wardrobe around the life you live. If you're on campus most days, focus on comfortable outfits you'll actually wear. If your weekends are filled with brunches, nights out or coffee runs, make sure your wardrobe reflects that too.
The pieces you wear the most should work with your lifestyle. The easier they are to mix and match, the more wear you'll get out of them.”
Versatile Staples First
“The best outfits usually start with great basics. A pair of jeans you love, the perfect white tee or tank, everyday jewelry and a few go-to layers make getting dressed so much easier.
Once you've built that foundation, have fun with it. Add pops of color, statement accessories or trending pieces that fit your aesthetic.”
Stay True to You
“Admiring a trend and adopting it are two very different things. You can appreciate what's current while staying true to your own aesthetic. Personal style is about curating what feels authentic, not wearing every trend that comes along.”
Accessorize
“Find some everyday jewelry pieces and wear them daily + add a rotation of more statement jewelry as well. Belts are a great way to dress up outfits and add layers. Cool sunnies are a must!”
How To Find Your Style FAQs
How do I find my personal style if I have no idea where to start?
Start with what you already own. Pull out the pieces you wear on repeat and look for patterns in the colors, silhouettes and fabrics you naturally gravitate towards. From there, create a Pinterest mood board, experiment with different aesthetics and don't be afraid to try something new.
What are the main fashion aesthetics in 2026?
Some of the biggest fashion aesthetics in 2026 include Maximalism, Y2K, Off Duty, Elevated Basics, Gorpcore and Soft Romantic. You don't have to stick to just one aesthetic though. Mix elements from different styles to create a wardrobe that feels authentic to you.
How do I build a capsule wardrobe once I've found my style?
Start with versatile staples you'll wear on repeat, like great denim, neutral tops, layering pieces and a go-to dress. Once you've built your foundation, add a handful of statement pieces that reflect your personal style. A simple way to approach it is the 80/20 rule. Keep around 80% of your wardrobe timeless and versatile, then use the remaining 20% to experiment with trends.
Can your style change over time, or should it stay consistent?
Absolutely! Your personal style will naturally evolve as your lifestyle, interests and confidence change. The pieces you loved a few years ago might not feel like you anymore, and that's completely normal. The best wardrobes grow with you, so don't be afraid to refresh your style as you do.
Finding your personal style isn't about getting it perfect the first time. It's about trying new things, discovering what you love and building a wardrobe that feels like you. The more you experiment, the more confident you'll become in your own style.
Save the outfit, try the trend, wear the color and don't be afraid to change your mind along the way.
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